Hello Elena
What a sad and difficult situation!
You must feel very confused and let down.
You say that he was your cyber boyfriend at first, but how long have you actually known him?
How much time have you actually spent with him?
I keep reading about people who fall in love on the Internet and, sometimes, the couple has never even met.
I think that your experience is an example of what can go wrong, when a couple do not really know each other very well.
Before people decide to marry, they need to really get to know each other and be certain that they can trust each other. It is difficult to do this when the people involved live long distances from each other and only really know each other via the Internet.
He says that he loves you, he phones you every day, he sends you money, he takes care of your needs. This sounds like a caring man ~ yet, all this time, he has been living with another woman.
Perhaps that is his reality and you are his fantasy?
Or perhaps he thinks that it is all right to have more than one partner at a time?
Did he give a reason when you confronted him?
It is interesting that he gave you access to his facebook account, when he must have known that you could find out about his partner that way.
I wonder if it was deliberate and he wanted you to know??
Does she know about you?
And his family had kept her secret from you?
Why would they do this?
How well do you know them?
How often do you see them?
Are they in Manila?
I cannot see how he can imagine that your wedding will still go ahead.
Do you still hope to marry him?
Under what circumstances would you go ahead with it?
Are you both from Manila originally?
Where were you planning to live after the wedding ~ Canada or Manila?
Relationship concerns are always painful and this is going to be particularly difficult to come to terms with because it is such an unusual set of circumstances.
Have you got friends and family to support you?
