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#359180 04/01/09 05:17 PM
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Ok, ok, I'm hopeless when it comes to stuff like this.

So I've had a crush on this guy in my class since he transfered in February. I thought it was just a phase, but ever since I broke it off completely with my ex, I've been daydreaming about him a lot. I look at him often and when he meets my eye, I look away. We talk and such, mostly about music since it's a common interest.

But I don't know if he likes me in that sense. What do I do?


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Ritsuka Tommy #359200 04/01/09 06:38 PM
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So it is completely over with your ex?
You are sure?
If this lad likes you, then he is bound to be wary, if he thinks that there is another boy in the picture ~ and in your heart.


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PDM #359206 04/01/09 07:20 PM
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Yes, it is completely over. I saw him for what he truly was. I'm sorry, but no one acts towards my father the way he did. He has threatened suicide numerous times already. And in my opinion, trying to cling to a love that will never happen like with my ex, is a waste of time. I'm moving on now.

I haven't mentioned my ex in front of him and I've told all my friends it is over between us.

I know to some, at this point, it sounds like my new crush is a 'rebound guy'. But let me tell you that I don't see guys like that. I value my feelings and I'm not prepared to toy with another's.

I've been considering asking one of my girls to ask this new guy of what he thinks of me. Is that playing it safe or should I use a different approach?

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Ritsuka Tommy #359278 04/02/09 12:27 AM
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The best thing is probably to be your natural self; be friendly, and see how it goes. smile


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PDM #359352 04/02/09 04:25 PM
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Ok, so I asked my friend to get some info outta him. Well, it's sorta good but going nowehere. He says I'm a good friend (good thing), is not interested in anyone at the moment (majorly good!) but wants to focus on his work first (bleh). Oh well, at least my chances are still good?


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Good friends are always worth having smile


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PDM #359570 04/03/09 06:02 PM
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That's true, but I want more than firendship with this guy.

-sigh- He wasn't at school today because he went to Namibia for the holidays. Great way to start the holidays ey... I wanted to say bye to him...


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Ritsuka Tommy #359602 04/03/09 11:33 PM
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Perhaps you need some time out from relationships for a while smile


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that might be wat you need right now to get your head clear

Terrancestreater #359663 04/04/09 05:36 PM
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But my head is clear enough, I've proved that. Ok sure, my ex is a stalker, but I can handle that. Whether I am or am not in another relationship, it's not going to have a negative impact on me.


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