Originally posted by Carl:
MrsJF, yours is a good, solid post. I agree with what you've said. It's obvious that we've thought a lot about the subject.
Unfortunately, I had it shoved in my face so that's all I did was think it & breathe it. Not a good experience.
In a different direction, a woman I know went and fought for her man. Right? Wrong? They're making it work.
So did I & 3 years later we're the happiest we've ever been. The act of forgiveness goes a long way in showing people the difference between doing a bad thing vs being a bad person.
Cyn, most people I know, myself included, said the exact same thing but when it's upon you all of a sudden, especially people in a marriage, you'd be surprised at the # of those who want to save their marriage. That's the uniqueness of everyone. We each have our own limits. I thought this was one of mine. Obviously I was wrong.
