I am totally in agreement with PDM and everyone else on all their comments.
I have just one thing to add, and don't take this as a put down because it isn't. The simple fact is, if you are on a forum asking the question you just asked, you are NOT ready for sex no matter what you may think.
You think you want it.
You think you understand what it means.
But the only thing you really KNOW is that you love someone and want to express it.
There are a lot of ways you can do that without doing anything that might be so life altering.
