Hi Dentwoboys.

From what you said, recently, about his treatment of your bird, it sounds as if your ex had problems of his own ~ so you certainly can't be blamed for that!

And after only 7 months, you might, perhaps, be better off thinking more about yourself, as Pinksnowme said, and not even considering men for a while ~ but that's just my opinion.

Pamper yourself. Go out with the girls. Enjoy your kids and your pets. Try to forget about men altogether, if possible. Things have a habit of brightening up when you least expect it. To find a man who will love you for you ~ and all that goes with you ~ you need to just be yourself and do your own thing. Then you might just bump into a man and find out that it's his thing, too.

To be honest, I don't think that anyone is undatable. There is someone out there for everyone ~ but sometimes they might be difficult to find.

As for 'special needs' kids, have you seen Katie Price and Peter Andre? He has adopted her son, who was apparently ignored by his real father ~ and he adores him. It's mutual. too.
http://fametastic.co.uk/archive/20070411...rveys-real-dad/
http://celebritybabies.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2008/04/26/kphjt1_cbb_2_3.jpg

I have read, though, that strong, intelligent women do find it difficult to meet compatible men. But intelligent men do exist, and they also need compatible women. smile

Last edited by PDM; 06/05/08 07:12 PM.

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