Hi lagirl143
Just a few thoughts from me.
I think that the important thing to do, here, is ask yourself, honestly, if you are in love with him.
It sounds as if there is 'something' between you, and you can't communicate it for some reason.
But what is it?
Friendship?
Companionship?
Affection?
Love?
Do you feel that you are better off and happier without him?
If so, then it's probably not fair on either of you to pursue this relationship.
On the other hand, it may be that you do love each other, but are just unable to communicate your feelings easily.
Is it worth going for relationship counselling do you think?
Or is it really over?
If it's over, be gentle but honest with him.
There are some books that I have found invaluable, when communicating with men ~ the 'Venus & Mars' books by Grey ~ and other similar titles. Male and female brains do seem to have a tendency to work differently. Understanding the differences and how to work with them can make communication clearer and relationships work better.
Good luck.
