I just burst into tears
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
There is this really cute guy! he has been my crush for two years. Now that we're friends, we became very close and sweet to each other. My problem is that I feel so jealous whenever I see him courting other girls! He is the "playboy" type of guy. No girl could resist him. One day, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said "yes". I just said YES because I don't want to waste the opportunity and I don't want to loose him as a friend because he might not talk to me again after i dump him. But our relationship ended after a day! He seemed cool with it. The next day, I saw him courting another girl which made me really jealous. I keep on saying that I want us to be just good friends again but whenever I see him with the girl he's couting, I just burst into tears. Now, I want to make him jealous. I need some advice on how I could make him realize that I am not just like other girls whom he can play with. I want him to see that I'm much happier with other guys than with him. Please help me. Also, I need an advice on how I could stop bursting into tears whenever I see him with other girls.
The way to overcome the jealousy is think of the other girl as something ridiculous. Like think about her with a pigs head and snout, grunting, and waddling along the ground. Maybe you'll burst out laughing instead of crying.
The problem with trying to make him jealous is that he will know it is false. He has already seen lots of other girls trying to make him jealous and he will just laugh inside when he sees you doing it. Plus it is fake and you don't want to be fake.
If you want to get him back, continue being his friend. Try baking some chocolate chip cookies for him. He might fall in love with you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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