I just burst into tears
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
There is this really cute guy! he has been my crush for two years. Now that we're friends, we became very close and sweet to each other. My problem is that I feel so jealous whenever I see him courting other girls! He is the "playboy" type of guy. No girl could resist him. One day, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said "yes". I just said YES because I don't want to waste the opportunity and I don't want to loose him as a friend because he might not talk to me again after i dump him. But our relationship ended after a day! He seemed cool with it. The next day, I saw him courting another girl which made me really jealous. I keep on saying that I want us to be just good friends again but whenever I see him with the girl he's couting, I just burst into tears. Now, I want to make him jealous. I need some advice on how I could make him realize that I am not just like other girls whom he can play with. I want him to see that I'm much happier with other guys than with him. Please help me. Also, I need an advice on how I could stop bursting into tears whenever I see him with other girls.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Find respectable boys
chocolate chip cookies? what is this the 1950s again? girl please!! i suggest not talking to him, it will make you feel better, why do you want to be friends with him if he makes you jealous all the time? do you like being hurt? if he liked you he would have stayed with you, agree? why is it that girls these days cant seem to ditch a man who is a butt to them? there are respectable guys out there... find him!
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