Phone calls = jealousy
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating this guy for a month now. I knew before hand that he had broke up with his girlfriend and that they were still good friends. They dated off and on for about 10 years, but broke up because she didn't want to move for him. I constantly have mood swings and get into bad moods whenever she calls and he talks to her. One day she called to tell him that she had a boyfriend and asked him if that made him jelaous. Another time she called and told me to f*** off because I was in the background singing, cause I was bored. And he didn't say anything to her about it. Then another time she called him and told him that she broke the necklace that she had given to him while they were dating. He told he she better go and get it fixed. I have told him that I don't like him talking to her, but he keeps saying that shes just a friend and that he wants me. Should I give an ultimatum, because I think he likes her still and wants to be with her. I'm a worried over nothing? Help me please.
One thing that might help is for him to not tell you all about the conversations they had. All it does is make you jealous.
I think you are making a lot out of nothing... admittedly it is annoying to have to overhear their conversations but you need to learn to trust him.
If you give him an ultimatum you are telling him that you don't trust him. All good relationships include a huge amount of trust.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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