Am I being too paranoic or is she too friendly with guys?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am now 25 and she is 24. We've dated since 1st semester in college and its been 5 yrs now. Between that, she cheated on me with her long time ex bf back in her hometown when she went back for summer. I forgive her. She cheated me again with another best fried of her when I was out doing internship for 2 month. I forgive her. Its been 3 yrs that she had behave faithfully and its been 2 yrs that she told me that she loved me and wanted to marry me.
She has a problem with making girlfriends coz of her personality. But theres always some guy that wanted to be friedly with her. The problem comes when she doesnt reject any guys that wanted to be friend with her, even though we both know the guy likes her.
I dont know what is the problem here. Am I being too paranoic or is she too friendly with guys? She's one of those girls who enjoy her own freedom and space sometimes... Advice
There is no abstract answer to your question about is she too friendly with guys.

The important point is how you feel about her behavior. If you can tolerate it or accept it then she is doing nothing wrong. If you don't like her behaviour then you need to work that out with her.

Don't let this issue slide... if you are going to get married then it will affect your married life and the friendships you form.

Good luck to you!

-- from George
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