i cheated on her then dumped her all summer due to guilt
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
im 17 going on 18 and have been dating the same girl for almost 2 years. Well, last year, i cheated on her then dumped her all summer due to guilt...well, now we are back together and have been for a while but im extremely jealous, i get scared when she hangs out with other guys. Well, pretty much she only hangs out with guys when we are not together, and this really, really bugs me, her having only guy friends, and watching movies with another guy...blah blah. im totally insecure and afraid that she might find these guys better than me, and i know guys dont want to be friends, they want other things, but she is nieve...How can i overcome my jealousy but convey my worries to her. OH, she still doesnt know about last year. Please help...
You are lucky to still her as a girlfriend.
So be happy that all you have to worry about is jealousy.
To get over jealousy treat it like an enemy and every time it rears its ugly head, give it the hardest punch you can. Pretty soon your punch will get stronger and jealousy will give up. Then you will have peace.
If you don't defeat jealousy now you might have that nasty habit for the rest of your life and that would suck!
-- from George
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