Everyone tells me to just ask her but im to shy and im afraid of rejection

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hey!! I really like this girl but dont no if she likes me. I lay hints to her all the time. i always laugh at her jokes and do everything you told me. Everyone tells me to just ask her but im to shy and im afraid of rejection.i have felt like this for ages now. WHAT WILL I DO??????

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Almost everyone is shy and afraid of rejection.

The question is what are you going to do about it. Are you going to spend the rest of your life all alone because you are shy? Of course, not! You will get up the guts to take chances of being hurt and sometimes get hurt and sometimes not.

You didn't mention that this girl flirts or takes an interest in you. This is not a good sign. My advice is to try very hard to become a very close friend of hers before you ask her out. Or at least be a good friend.

On the other hand, your friends are encouraging you to ask her out. They might know already that she wants you to.

So it all boils down to taking chances and being willing to take the rejection that will sometimes come. Besides even if she rejects you once doesn't mean you can't try again. Get brave! Get going!

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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