Everyone tells me to just ask her but im to shy and im afraid of rejection

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hey!! I really like this girl but dont no if she likes me. I lay hints to her all the time. i always laugh at her jokes and do everything you told me. Everyone tells me to just ask her but im to shy and im afraid of rejection.i have felt like this for ages now. WHAT WILL I DO??????

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Be yourself

This sounds to me like you are just really scared more of rejection or shyness at some points right? This happens to alot of people not just guys but girls too. Though you just have to know if things are what they appear to be just like if you are scared of rejection then this tells me that your reputaion is at risk just like your heart. Everything is at risk but that is why we take them. Mainly whut i am trying to say is let her know and be more of a man about things and maybe if you show her your real self then she will like you for you. Make that risky chance and ither if you do or dont get that answer that you want to hear you will get one and it will help you to know than ither leading your self on or you could be living a fairy tale. Just all you have to do is be you and you never know things may turn out for the better for worse or for good.
Good luck and i wish you all the best P.S. You make life whut it is to you so make her whut she should be to you.

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