My husband is a very manipulative guy who constantly threatens me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, i am a 25 yr old girl. I have been married for 3 years . My husband is a very manipulative guy who constantly threatens me. Everytime we get into a fight, he says hes going to call my parents and tell them everything. I do not want my parents to get involved as it only makes things worse. I have had a talk with him about this and he agreed not to get my parents involved but everytime we disagree about something , he threatens to call my parents. I feel hurt and mistreated, scared of his threats, so much so that everytime he threatens me , i threaten to throw his work stuff out the window. we had a major fight yesterday and when i scratched him ,(due to his threats) he walked out of the house and said he was going to show the scratches to my parents, i ran barefoot out of the house and was crying, but he couldnt care less how hurt i was. I dont know what to do anymore, i dont know whether i should carry on this relationship. he hurt me so much , i dont know how to behave with him anymore. He is honestly a very dumb guy, who does not know how to deal with everyday situations.He is a mummys boy who only listens to his mum when it comes to makeing decisions, even minor decisions.I dont play a part in his life , other than looking pretty and being a 'party accesory' i hate the way my life has turned out. i cry alot and fear i might be suffering from depression. everytime he sees me cry, he feels nothing. how should i behave with him? should i hide everytime i cry. pls help soon
You should be looking for a divorce lawyer or divorce mediator.
This is no kind of relationship for you to be in. If you want to give more of a chance you could see a counselor by yourself or see a marriage counselor with him. You could also warn him that you will seek legal action if he doesn't stop threatening you.
But my advice is to put an end to this as soon as possible.
I would also advise you to not care so much what your parent think. You are an adult now and what you do is your business.
-- from George
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