How can he love his wife and me at the same time?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My colleague and I are in love with each other. The problem is that he is married. We both love each other and we have a good 4 months together. Though we love each other, we know it is wrong because of our religion. And he feels guilty towards his wife when we were together but yet he really wants to be with me. We have broken up but we still love each other.

How can he love his wife and me at the same time? I know he still loves me cause he cares for me and very concerned when I was sick or have problems at work or home. He is also concerned about how I was coping since we had broken up. He wasnt that concerned to other female colleagues.

Need help

Some people can love two persons at the same time. It's sort of like loving two children at the same time.

You two have done the right thing by breaking it up. Try to stay on the straight and narrow from now own.

Be thankful that nothing happened that might have broken up his family!

Best wishes,

-- from George
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