Efforts at intercourse hurt

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi,
I have been with my girlfriend for over 9months now and we haven't had sex. She is a virgin but i am not. Weve talked about it many times, and also tried a few times. However, when we have tried, it hurts when i am entering her so i want to stop because i dont want to hurt her, and she feels uncomfertable. We both really want to have sex and truly love eachother. We are very close and this is the only problem we have in our relationship. It has got to the stage where it feels like we will NEVER have sex. Could you please give us some advice which would mean it would not hurt her as much, or just anything that you think would help, thanks alot

M*

RomanceClass.com Advice
Probably the answer is that her hymen is stronger than most. So, you are either going to have to cause her some extra pain, or, she needs to go to her gynecologist or doctor and have her hymen cut by the doctor (a painless quick action).

Hope this works out well for you!
George

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