Efforts at intercourse hurt

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been with my girlfriend for over 9months now and we haven't had sex. She is a virgin but i am not. Weve talked about it many times, and also tried a few times. However, when we have tried, it hurts when i am entering her so i want to stop because i dont want to hurt her, and she feels uncomfertable. We both really want to have sex and truly love eachother. We are very close and this is the only problem we have in our relationship. It has got to the stage where it feels like we will NEVER have sex. Could you please give us some advice which would mean it would not hurt her as much, or just anything that you think would help, thanks alot


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Bite on a pillow

Not trying to gross you out but try to finger her just to loosen it up and apply some type of lubrication so you can slide in.....While doing that tell her to take deep breaths and clinch the sheets or bite downn on a pillow~he he

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