Mother sounds ok to meVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi...I'm a 17 year old female...my mom just found out that I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. One day she flips and says "you are no longer allowed in his room! I'm going to talk to his mom!" and the next she's calm and cool about it and offers to take me to get birth control. The thing is that I am going to be 18 in october and she threatens to control my actions then. I love my boyfriend and I wouldn't have lost my virginity to him if I didn't love him and if he didn't love me...my question is how can I talk to my mom about this so she can trust my judgement more and trust my actions.thanks
Your mother has offered to take you to get birth control. She is giving you the ok to have sex with your boyfriend. That would cancel out her telling you you can't go in his room. I don't see any problem.
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