Mother sounds ok to me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi...I'm a 17 year old female...my mom just found out that I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. One day she flips and says "you are no longer allowed in his room! I'm going to talk to his mom!" and the next she's calm and cool about it and offers to take me to get birth control. The thing is that I am going to be 18 in october and she threatens to control my actions then. I love my boyfriend and I wouldn't have lost my virginity to him if I didn't love him and if he didn't love me...my question is how can I talk to my mom about this so she can trust my judgement more and trust my actions.thanks
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Talk to Her
just tell her what you told us the truth and what your heart feels.
the inital shock was probably hard to deal with she had to think it over (about when she was young)- ask her.
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