Looking for intelligent man
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am 32 years old. I am smart and well educated. My problem is i can't find a man my type. I mean someone of my own level, smart and hard working. The guy i have been dating hasn''t even been to school! He doesn't understand what I am doing in my life. I mean I can''t talk to him about my job or ask him any advice. He doesn't understand me at all. The other guys i have dated are also the same type. They are of very less intelligence than me.I mean , i want to meet and marry someone my level. Its very hard for me to meet such type of guys as I dont go out a lot. Also, if i meet smart educated guys, they seem interested with me only the first time. When i call them, they just loose interest and nothing develops.This has happened to me 3 times. I really want to date someone my own level as i am tired with my relationships with man who have very different outlook in life from me. All my friends have found smart guys and are married . I keep on getting worried as i feel I am getting older and can't meet a guy my own level and settle down. Please help.
The best place to find guys nowadays is on the Internet. Try joining matchmaker.com or something like that. Intelligence should be on your list of desirable qualities, but don't overemphasize it. To do so might scare off some good prospects who are afraid they don't meet your standards.
There are plenty of intelligent guys out there wishing they could find an intelligent woman... and as your are an intelligent woman, I am sure you will find one.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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