Looking for intelligent man
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I am 32 years old. I am smart and well educated. My problem is i can't find a man my type. I mean someone of my own level, smart and hard working. The guy i have been dating hasn''t even been to school! He doesn't understand what I am doing in my life. I mean I can''t talk to him about my job or ask him any advice. He doesn't understand me at all. The other guys i have dated are also the same type. They are of very less intelligence than me.I mean , i want to meet and marry someone my level. Its very hard for me to meet such type of guys as I dont go out a lot. Also, if i meet smart educated guys, they seem interested with me only the first time. When i call them, they just loose interest and nothing develops.This has happened to me 3 times. I really want to date someone my own level as i am tired with my relationships with man who have very different outlook in life from me. All my friends have found smart guys and are married . I keep on getting worried as i feel I am getting older and can't meet a guy my own level and settle down. Please help.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Try looking for intelligent men in such places as a local library,Barnes& Nobles bookstore,museums,art galleries,etc.I really doubt that you will find the type of man you're looking for in a seedy bar!The Internet is also a good place for looking up single men.Make intelligence a strong point,but,don't go overboard or you will scare away a decent guy who feels like he won't measure up to you.Just keep looking.You'll find your Albert Einstein,Stephen Hawking,or Bill Gates!! Good Luck!!
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