i jus cant stop thinking about her i miss her so much
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey there. My girlfriend went away thursday to a summer acting project and she will be back on sunday night. Its not a long time i know but it feels like an eternity to me. I feel real insercure about it as well. I KNOW my girl wouldnt cheat on me and she is comitted to me and has bn for 2 and a half yrs. But i cant stop thinking about bad things, like some guy trying to hit on her, it makes my skin crawl. I dont like feeling dis way, this is not who i am. I only experience this jealousy with my girlfriend. I have never bn jealous of anything in my life or any1 for that matter. The last night she was here, i help her pack, we laughed, PASSIONATLY kissed and cuddled. i jus cant stop thinking about her i miss her so much, but its also driving me insane becasue with that feeling of missing her comes that jealously. Its just something i have no control over. I trust her, i just dont trust the guys out there who will try there luck.
Thanks for your time.
You need to tame this jealousy before it overwhelms and breaks up your relationship. You're feeling miserable without her which is a bad sign. A good relationship is one where both people feel fine on their own and share their happiness when together. Instead, you're feeling upset and frustrated when she's out of sight. If you trust her, then what's your worry? You say that you're upset at the thought of the other guys. She's a woman, she's handled this situation before. There's no chance that she's going to be dragged into some back alleyway, so don't worry about her.
Jealousy comes from insecurity. You need to learn to feel better about yourself and know that you are valuable and worthy and since you are, you have nothing to worry about when your girlfriend is out of your sight.
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-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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