i jus cant stop thinking about her i miss her so much
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Hey there. My girlfriend went away thursday to a summer acting project and she will be back on sunday night. Its not a long time i know but it feels like an eternity to me. I feel real insercure about it as well. I KNOW my girl wouldnt cheat on me and she is comitted to me and has bn for 2 and a half yrs. But i cant stop thinking about bad things, like some guy trying to hit on her, it makes my skin crawl. I dont like feeling dis way, this is not who i am. I only experience this jealousy with my girlfriend. I have never bn jealous of anything in my life or any1 for that matter. The last night she was here, i help her pack, we laughed, PASSIONATLY kissed and cuddled. i jus cant stop thinking about her i miss her so much, but its also driving me insane becasue with that feeling of missing her comes that jealously. Its just something i have no control over. I trust her, i just dont trust the guys out there who will try there luck.
Thanks for your time.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
You need to learn how to control your jealousy before it destroys your relationship with this woman.Jealousy stems from insecurity and you need to figure out why you are insecure.As for guys hassling her,she is an adult and I'm sure that she can deal with guys asking her out.When jealousy goes out of control,you end up being miserable because you can't trust anyone anymore.Also, you need to read up on how to handle insecurity and learn to be more comfortable about yourself. Hope this helps!!!
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