he only text messages me and never calls and i ALWAYS call him first.Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
one night while out with my cousin i had asked this guy for a dollar. He was with his friends and we all ended up going out for a drink..he bought mine. When we left he gave me his number..which i thought was weird...but i totally liked him so i was determined to get him. I called him a couple of days later and told him i was having a party. he text me and said he was tired but would see me soon. A couple of days later him and his friends came over. They left and he stayed. We ended up messing around and while we were he was like i like you i wanna see you everyday blah blah blah....He left the next morning for work...he works a lot..and when i let him out kissed me on the forehead. He said he would call me later. He never did. A month later I called him because I was pissed. He said he was glad i called he had an explanation and would call me after work and did. Him and his gf had gotten back together and he thought she was the one. It ended up not being such a good idea and he said by that time he figured it was too late to call me. He also has told me that he is not a big phone person. Ne way he came over and we talked and had really great conversations, he again said that he isnt a phone person and waits for people to call him. By the end of the night we messed around again and as soon as he left he text me and said he had a really good time but had to leave because he was really serious about his job. my whole point is he only text messages me and never calls and i ALWAYS call him first. DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT?? should i just forget about him or just suck it up and deal with the fact that i always have to call? I hate feeling like Im stalking him or something. help
If he says that he enjoys his time with you and he text's you and says he's not a phone person, then just take it for a fact and do all the calling. If he doesn't want to be with you, then he'll say sorry that something else came up and he can't be with you. It sounds like he's doing what he can to be with you, which is a good sign. And it's really great that he's so dedicated to his job, which means he's dependable and won't be soaking you for $$.
Spend more time with him. Enjoy his company. The more you date him, the better an idea you'll have whether he's the right one for you. But you'll only know if you actually spend that time with him. And I think that you'll be pleasantly surprised.
-- from Jenn
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