he only text messages me and never calls and i ALWAYS call him first.
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
one night while out with my cousin i had asked this guy for a dollar. He was with his friends and we all ended up going out for a drink..he bought mine. When we left he gave me his number..which i thought was weird...but i totally liked him so i was determined to get him. I called him a couple of days later and told him i was having a party. he text me and said he was tired but would see me soon. A couple of days later him and his friends came over. They left and he stayed. We ended up messing around and while we were he was like i like you i wanna see you everyday blah blah blah....He left the next morning for work...he works a lot..and when i let him out kissed me on the forehead. He said he would call me later. He never did. A month later I called him because I was pissed. He said he was glad i called he had an explanation and would call me after work and did. Him and his gf had gotten back together and he thought she was the one. It ended up not being such a good idea and he said by that time he figured it was too late to call me. He also has told me that he is not a big phone person. Ne way he came over and we talked and had really great conversations, he again said that he isnt a phone person and waits for people to call him. By the end of the night we messed around again and as soon as he left he text me and said he had a really good time but had to leave because he was really serious about his job. my whole point is he only text messages me and never calls and i ALWAYS call him first. DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT?? should i just forget about him or just suck it up and deal with the fact that i always have to call? I hate feeling like Im stalking him or something. help
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
He's using you
If you have to ask then the answer is NO. When you like a pair of shoes or a dress you know. When you like a person, its the same. You want to hear their voice, you don't go a month without calling. He's using you. The man has a steady gf, and he comes around you just to hit it. How old is this guy anyway? What kind of jerk cheats on the "one" anyway? Do you really want to beome the one so he can cheat on you too? The wrong guy is always leaving you wondering. Why would he do or say that? You'll have to ask that all the time when you are with the wrong guy. Don't let him trat you like that. Once a month? Would Romeo leave juliet for a month with nothing but a promise of a call?
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