Chatting Online - Is This Love?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been chatting online with this girl off and on for several months. Just lately I have been talking to her over the phone. We both enjoy talking with eachother and we have lots in common and share lots of interest. We both would like to meet in person. My question is how do I know if she is truely the right girl and how do I know for sure that she is falling in love with me?
Love involves really knowing someone in real life situations. What they are like when they are grumpy after a long day. What they are like when they are doing chores they ate. Until you get to that stage in a relationship, you are dealing with "courtship behavior". People are on their best behavior when they are courting, they try to impress each other. At some stage in the relationship they stop doing that and start being themselves. You both can be realizing this is a good fit so far - but until you are able to spend real time together, for extended periods (not just "fun weekend vacations"), it won't really be a situation where you can know it's truly love.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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