Chatting Online - Is This Love?
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I have been chatting online with this girl off and on for several months. Just lately I have been talking to her over the phone. We both enjoy talking with eachother and we have lots in common and share lots of interest. We both would like to meet in person. My question is how do I know if she is truely the right girl and how do I know for sure that she is falling in love with me?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Long distance advice
You don't know if she is the right one that is the fun part of the search. I know what you mean I met the guy I'm seeing online and it took me some time to actually say ok let's meet. The trick is go into this with an open mind, don't expect love to happen over the internet or over the phone, things can change when you meet in person. Just by yourself and ask the same of her and if you two are meant to be it will happen, if not you can always come out as friends.
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