I Love Her - She's In an Abusive Relationship
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am in love with a co-worker who is involved in an abusive relationship. She has the same feelings for me and she desperately wants to get out of the relationship and move on. She is also 12 years older than I am.
Her boyfriend stalks her at work and whenever she leaves the house, he threatens her, yells and screams at her, and continually intimidates her in order to get her to stay in the relationship. She is afraid of him and does not know what to do in order to resolve the situation. He has threatened me and stalked me as well. She is constantly being pressured to quit her job and avoid me. What do I do before I lose the woman I love?
Let's just put aside any relationship or feelings involving you right now. This woman needs to get away from this abusive man. Have her go to a police station and file a restraining order against him. Have her move out. She is an adult, she deserves to live a life free of fear. She has a job - she should get an apartment, make sure this guy stays clear of her and involve whatever police and legal entities are necessary to make that happen.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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