My Ex Wants to Cheat with Me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I went to my ex's house yesterday. We talked a little bit. While we were talking he asked if I could keep a seceret and I told him yeah. He got up and looked out his window and walked over to me and kissed me. He still has his girlfriend and he said he missed holding me and that he missed me a lot. We ended up makeing out! He wanted to do more but I told him no because he still has a girlfriend! While we were laying on his bed he was on top of me and we were kissing and his dad walked in and he got off of me and his dad just said what ae ya'll doin' adn laughed! His dad didn't even care!
What do I do now! He told me that he only wants me and that he loves me. It is getting out of control! I don't know what to do any more! Should I tell him if he really wants me then he will have to break up with his girl? I just don't want to hurt her and myself at the same time. He told me that he was going to try and make their relationship work but he don't think it will because he is 16 and and she is 13! What should I tell him?
If he's willing to cheat on her, he'll be willing to cheat on you. That's an important concept to remember. Anybody who is willing to ditch honor in a relationship because "something better came along" can always find something better than you, too.
Tell him if he wants to be with you then he needs to put his money where his mouth is. Either he's serious or he's not. Don't let yourself be used as a safety net for him.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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