My Ex Wants to Cheat with Me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I went to my ex's house yesterday. We talked a little bit. While we were talking he asked if I could keep a seceret and I told him yeah. He got up and looked out his window and walked over to me and kissed me. He still has his girlfriend and he said he missed holding me and that he missed me a lot. We ended up makeing out! He wanted to do more but I told him no because he still has a girlfriend! While we were laying on his bed he was on top of me and we were kissing and his dad walked in and he got off of me and his dad just said what ae ya'll doin' adn laughed! His dad didn't even care!
What do I do now! He told me that he only wants me and that he loves me. It is getting out of control! I don't know what to do any more! Should I tell him if he really wants me then he will have to break up with his girl? I just don't want to hurt her and myself at the same time. He told me that he was going to try and make their relationship work but he don't think it will because he is 16 and and she is 13! What should I tell him?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I'd say leave him alone. I had an the same situation. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years. we broke up he got another girl- Then he started saying he'd rather be with me. we slept together then he had the nerve to say he wanted to give her a chance. Don't make yorself fell used it's awful They want what they can't have and if he really wants you he'll leave he's current girl to be with you.
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