I want him back but I'm with someone else.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My now ex-boyfriend was a jealous boyfriend. He would get mad at me for the simplist things but I loved him with all my heart, and I know he loved me. He was my first love. But then his friends convinced him to breakup with me. So he did. And now I haven't talked to him in about 4 months. I tried to move on, so this other guy, my current boyfriend. But when I'm with him, nothing is the same as when I was with my ex. I've been having dreams about my ex even. When my boyfriend kisses me it doesn't feel the same as it did with my ex. But the thing is, my ex treated me badly, and nobody but me ever liked him while I was dating him. I love my ex and I miss him with all my heart. But I can tell my boyfriend loves me and cares about me deeply, I just, I don't know if I feel the same way aobut him. What do I do?. Please help me...
You know what? You never really get over your first love. You may know in your heart that he was not a good choice for you, but somewhere you will still carry around a memory of the things that were exciting and good.
It's okay to feel like that - just don't dwell too much on those memories, or on that person. Your new boyfriend sounds wonderful. Give him the chance to make new memories with you. You might find you grow to love him and emerge with a much better relationship than your fantasies of the past are leading you to believe. :)
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Hard to forget first love