I want him back but I'm with someone else.
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
My now ex-boyfriend was a jealous boyfriend. He would get mad at me for the simplist things but I loved him with all my heart, and I know he loved me. He was my first love. But then his friends convinced him to breakup with me. So he did. And now I haven't talked to him in about 4 months. I tried to move on, so this other guy, my current boyfriend. But when I'm with him, nothing is the same as when I was with my ex. I've been having dreams about my ex even. When my boyfriend kisses me it doesn't feel the same as it did with my ex. But the thing is, my ex treated me badly, and nobody but me ever liked him while I was dating him. I love my ex and I miss him with all my heart. But I can tell my boyfriend loves me and cares about me deeply, I just, I don't know if I feel the same way aobut him. What do I do?. Please help me...
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Hard to forget first love
i know that it's impossible to forget our first love.In fact me too i had mostly the same history.i break up with my first love just like you and i have another person in my life for the moment.but i still remember him and miss him also but when i miss him,i always thought if i return back to him even i want it i can't because if i do it what will happen to my current boyfriend?...always think about this question when you miss your ex boyfriend.because if you leave your current boyfriend alone you will be the loser because if your ex boyfriend had really loved you he would never listened to his friends.he would think only about you..try to understand what I'm trying to say.better forget him i know its a bit difficult but you'll have to do it.better think that it was very bad nightmare.all that you have to do is throw him away from your heart and accept the one who cares for you and that you know that he will always keep you happy not treat you badly like your ex boyfriend has done to you. hope you understand..
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