How can we talk it through?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and I are always fighting, over little things but its so much more than that. He will snap at me for something stupid and since I am really sensitive I usually move away from him. Instead of trying to comfort me, he gets frustrated and eventually ends up yelling at me. He says hes not yelling, and says hes human and has emotions. And when we start to fight, I try to leave because I can't take it and he will insult me calling me immature and telling me to shut up when hes talking but forget it if I try to talk, and so on. Stupid fights, that we usually can resolve, but he hurts me so bad. I love spending time with him and he says that hes never felt this way before, but I need help how I can resolve this because it makes me cry :'(
You started off by saying your always fighting and ended up with saying that you love spending time with him. Is this really how you want to spend your time? He insults you, he yells at you, says you're immature and tells you to shut up. No wonder you're crying. Dump this jerk, then and only then will you stop crying.
-- from Jill
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