How can we talk it through?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I are always fighting, over little things but its so much more than that. He will snap at me for something stupid and since I am really sensitive I usually move away from him. Instead of trying to comfort me, he gets frustrated and eventually ends up yelling at me. He says hes not yelling, and says hes human and has emotions. And when we start to fight, I try to leave because I can't take it and he will insult me calling me immature and telling me to shut up when hes talking but forget it if I try to talk, and so on. Stupid fights, that we usually can resolve, but he hurts me so bad. I love spending time with him and he says that hes never felt this way before, but I need help how I can resolve this because it makes me cry :'(
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
i am currently struggling with almost the same situation right now, though my boyfriend doesn't hurt me physically. i am feeling so stupid for letting him do that to me but i can't let him go because i know in my heart that i love him. :(
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