I like my best best best friend's brother.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
bottom line, i like my best friend's brother and have for about three years now.
i am visiting their house a few times this summer(both army brats and moved apart:()
i really really like him and not sure if he likes me
i never had a boyfriend and he has had many girlfriends.
signs i get
-he always talks about the girls' he has been with and MAKES sure i am listening
-i always catch him looking at me
-he has complemented me twice (1-my outfit2-said i looked good)
-won't hug me when everyone says bye when we visit
-we played co-op guitar hero for 1hour straight and he told me he didn't want me to go (we were completley alone)
-he opened the door when i was changing(i had a bra on) and he waited a few seconds before he closed the door.
i am new at this, romance wise, being a 13 year old and i don't know what to do
please help me and tell me what to do so that my friend doesn't get wierded out(i never told her) and maybe how to give him signs that i really really like him.
i am 13
You didn't say how old he is, and that makes a difference. If he is 16 then he is probably too old for you.
But, let's imagine that he is 14 or 15. Start hugging him when everyone says goodbye. Flirt with him by always smiling at him and laughing at his jokes. No fancy flirting until you get used to it. Keep playing guitar hero with him if you can. Your friend will notice that you like him and so long as she doesn't put up a fuss, you are ok. She will probably bring up the subject with you and you should just casually say that he is fun and you like him as a friend. Later, if you two grow together, you can tell his sister that your feelings got stronger.
Hope this helps! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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