I like my best best best friend's brother.
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
bottom line, i like my best friend's brother and have for about three years now.
i am visiting their house a few times this summer(both army brats and moved apart:()
i really really like him and not sure if he likes me
i never had a boyfriend and he has had many girlfriends.
signs i get
-he always talks about the girls' he has been with and MAKES sure i am listening
-i always catch him looking at me
-he has complemented me twice (1-my outfit2-said i looked good)
-won't hug me when everyone says bye when we visit
-we played co-op guitar hero for 1hour straight and he told me he didn't want me to go (we were completley alone)
-he opened the door when i was changing(i had a bra on) and he waited a few seconds before he closed the door.
i am new at this, romance wise, being a 13 year old and i don't know what to do
please help me and tell me what to do so that my friend doesn't get wierded out(i never told her) and maybe how to give him signs that i really really like him.
i am 13
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Third wheel -- NO!
don't go for it. it would hurt your best friend waaaay too much.
consider how bad she'll feel when you walk in the door but go to her brother's room instead of hers.
it's too much of a risk to go out with her brother, you guys might stop being friends.
and 13-year-old relationships dont last long. it'd be such a short expirience, not worth losing a best friend that's been there for you through thick and thin.
my best friend of 10 years (we're 15 now) likes my 17 year old brother and now she's all pissed at me because i wont let it happen.
ive had friends ditch me for guys before and im not letting it happen again.
and i dont wanna see them kiss, at all. i dont wanna be a third wheel when she comes over.
its just completely wrong. all around wrong.
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