Is it love or just a habit

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 yrs..I am 20 yrs and he is 21 yrs...we see eachother everyday..i love him very much because he has been my first in everything and my fam. likes him...but he is very moody sometimes and constantly we have arguments because of one of his friends that is always calling him to go out...and he has gone out couple of times behind my back..
i try to get him to do things with me but he always has excuses...he shows affection sometimes most of the time he is telling me that im ugly he claims he just playing but i feel he is serious...i feel that he has lost the intrest in me what do u advice to try and rescue my relationship.. Advice
Tell him with all seriousness that you don't want to be called ugly even if he thinks it is joking. Of course it is hurtful to you and makes you doubt his love. Don't even think of marriage as long as he acts so immaturely with you by going out with friends and ignoring you.

You have a real project on your hands. Set yourself a goal for the next six months. See if you and he can turn around your relationship and if you can't then it is time for thinking of splitting. Do it for your own sake and his too.

Good luck! George

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