Is it love or just a habit

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 yrs..I am 20 yrs and he is 21 yrs...we see eachother everyday..i love him very much because he has been my first in everything and my fam. likes him...but he is very moody sometimes and constantly we have arguments because of one of his friends that is always calling him to go out...and he has gone out couple of times behind my back..
i try to get him to do things with me but he always has excuses...he shows affection sometimes most of the time he is telling me that im ugly he claims he just playing but i feel he is serious...i feel that he has lost the intrest in me what do u advice to try and rescue my relationship..

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Seriously needs to change

he's sounds like a jerk. give him one chance to stop HIS UGLY BEHAVIOR or dump his ass!! show him you can't be walked over, if your own boyfriend doesn't take you seriously..why would anybody else? seriously he needs to change or you need to leave!

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