I don't know whats going on....
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
First of all thank you for reading my question/problem. Some how I have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me or I don't know... but in his web page... where he meets new people to talk to like myspace, he talks different people and he left it on the other day and me being noisy browsed through and looked at his messages and comments. And well... what I found I didn't like... I guess I feel jelous and heartbreaked. He was sending messages to others saying like for example "Merry Christmas Mi Amor... which means Merry Christmas my love... and he just starts flirting and chatting with other girls leaving cute comments and it also says that he is single and looking for someone on his page and also discribes the type of person he's looking for... It just hurt me so bad when I read those messages and we've been togther for almost 7 months.... and we're engaged.. I don't know what to do.. He doesn't even tell me I'm beautiful or cute comments anymore nor does he tells me that he loves me like he use to ... now days when i tell him that I love him he either says I know... and doesn't really care and or sometimes but rare he actually says I love you back... he dones'nt even treat me like a girlfriend anymore.. but the thing is ... I love him no matter what... and he does to ...I just guess i'm not getting any attention from him. ..can you please advise me or maybe give me hints on what to do or your opinion on my situation.
Thanks so much
It appears that the freshness of your romance has grown stale.
Have a serious but gentle talk with him and express your concerns. He must understand that things are different and has trouble admitting them to you (or even to himself.)
It isn't unusual for relationships to fizzle out... some do in days, weeks, months, or even years. Accepting this can be hard to do, but if you decide that is what's happening then don't beat a dead horse.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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