Is this a sign he wants to break up with me or something??
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Earlier, I went out with my boyfriend to eat, and my boyfriend's best friend was there with his sister and mom. So, after we ate, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to check out his friend's sister's boobs, but since I was there he couldn't. Does that mean if I'm NOT there he'll check out every other girl who passes by? Plus, he's a bisexual, which I'm very aware of, and I don't care. But, he obsesses over some guys like a fangirl. It makes me feel sort of solitary, and I don't really have anything to say when he starts converstaions like this. It's really getting to me, and making me feel sort of...unwanted. Or maybe his go-to girl whenever he gets tired of anything else. The funny thing is, is that he's really sensitive about doing something wrong in a relationship, so I can't find the heart to even hint that I'm getting jealous whenever he talks. I sort of go into a "distant" mood, which I don't know if he notices, but it's as close a hint I can give to him at the moement.
He is treating you like dirt.
You need to let him know somehow or else your relationship is not going to work in the long run.
Try this: next time he acts out, say to him "Why don't we talk about you and me... we are so much more interesting."
Good luck! George
p.s. I don't think he's trying to give you a breakup sign, he is just insensitive.
-- from George
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