Is this a sign he wants to break up with me or something??
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Earlier, I went out with my boyfriend to eat, and my boyfriend's best friend was there with his sister and mom. So, after we ate, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to check out his friend's sister's boobs, but since I was there he couldn't. Does that mean if I'm NOT there he'll check out every other girl who passes by? Plus, he's a bisexual, which I'm very aware of, and I don't care. But, he obsesses over some guys like a fangirl. It makes me feel sort of solitary, and I don't really have anything to say when he starts converstaions like this. It's really getting to me, and making me feel sort of...unwanted. Or maybe his go-to girl whenever he gets tired of anything else. The funny thing is, is that he's really sensitive about doing something wrong in a relationship, so I can't find the heart to even hint that I'm getting jealous whenever he talks. I sort of go into a "distant" mood, which I don't know if he notices, but it's as close a hint I can give to him at the moement.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
SWEETIE, YOU NEED TO FOLLOW THROUGH WITH YOUR GUT FEELINGS. IF HE IS BISEXUAL, THEN HE IS USING YOU AS A DOORMAT. YOU ARE STILL VERY YOUNG AND NEED TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. AT YOUR AGE, IT IS NOT FESIBLE TO HAVE A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. YOU HAVE A LOT TO DO BEFORE YOU GET SERIOUS WITH SOMEONE. ENJOY YOUR LIFE AS A TEENAGER AND FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY. ITS OK TO BE FRIENDS, BUT OTHER IS NOT HEALTHY. WITH ALL THEE IS OUT THERE IT SCARES ME TO SEE TEENAGERS BEING OVERTAKEN WITH THIS TYPE OF THING. IF HE IS OBSESSING OVER BOYS, THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING HERE. HE IS NOT YOUR TYPE. MOVE ON AND ENJOY BEING A TEENAGER SWEETIE.
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