Jealousy...Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, Ive been married actually to my hubby for nearly 2 yrs and we are very very happy together. I know he loves me 2 death, theres no doubt about that. The only lil problem Ive eva had wit him is this jealousy thing inside me. It used to b really bad, but Ive grown up alot and realized I'm just being silly cus my man aint even like what I wud make him out to be. He has never cheated on me or anything near that, its just when I would think he is looking at another women I would throw fits. I know its normal for everyone to look. Now, we are so much better, I never throw fits, it dont even bother me much anymore if I do see him look over. Everyone looks. But how can I get rid of this feeling inside me completely?? Is there anything that can help me not feel so down inside when I think he is looking at someone else? He isnt the kinda guy to look constantly, he respects me very much, but jus his glancing over bothers me. I hate it. I'm a very confident women, I love myself, very happy and I dont see others as threats to me. So what is it that I can do or that you can say to me to help me get over this bad feeling everytime he glances? I dont like speaking to him about it, cus in a way, it jus makes it worse and makes me feel like an idiot. Any way of helping? I'd appreciate it !!
Think to yourself that he is looking at a painting in a museum.
That's about what it amounts to... and he's not even looking as long as he would in a museum.
Or when he looks, think of this other woman as a pig dressed up in a plaid outfit and high heels. You may get a chuckle out of it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
Visitor Submitted Responses
Our RomanceClass visitors have chimed in with thoughts on this question and answer. Click on a link below to read what their solutions are!
Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!
All Advice in the category - Jealousy Issues
Browse our Answer Database- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response
Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.