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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Hi, Ive been married actually to my hubby for nearly 2 yrs and we are very very happy together. I know he loves me 2 death, theres no doubt about that. The only lil problem Ive eva had wit him is this jealousy thing inside me. It used to b really bad, but Ive grown up alot and realized I'm just being silly cus my man aint even like what I wud make him out to be. He has never cheated on me or anything near that, its just when I would think he is looking at another women I would throw fits. I know its normal for everyone to look. Now, we are so much better, I never throw fits, it dont even bother me much anymore if I do see him look over. Everyone looks. But how can I get rid of this feeling inside me completely?? Is there anything that can help me not feel so down inside when I think he is looking at someone else? He isnt the kinda guy to look constantly, he respects me very much, but jus his glancing over bothers me. I hate it. I'm a very confident women, I love myself, very happy and I dont see others as threats to me. So what is it that I can do or that you can say to me to help me get over this bad feeling everytime he glances? I dont like speaking to him about it, cus in a way, it jus makes it worse and makes me feel like an idiot. Any way of helping? I'd appreciate it !!
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
i most defineatly had a jealous ex we were together 1 day and a guy called it wasnt for me he snatched the phone out my hands and hung up it was embrassing whats so funny is that afterwards he didnt call me we were supposed to be in a relationship but i guess not so now were broken up as much as i care about him i cant really understnd that situation and i dont i want to.
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