Am i too dependant?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years, it was great for a long while then about 6 months agao the fighting started, i have been staying at his house at night and we usually saw each other every day, to me it was fone and it seemed fone to him, we did everything together and it was great, but he now says he needs his space, im annoying him alot now cause im always there, he says he loves me and still wants to be with me but he doesnt like the clingyness. what do i do, i am so used to being with him every day and all the time that now im sick without him, i keep getting thoughts in my head! im so upset all the time and its really affecting me, what can i do?
Concentrate on giving him his space.
Also don't worry so much and feel so much pain. That isn't an easy thing to do, but it will help make you more attractive to him. Develop other interests, friends, and activities so you won't dwell on him so much. He will notice the difference. Talk with friends about your problems and see if they can help.
Good luck! George
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