'my ex girlfriend is a very dear friend'

Originally Posted By: thomas

i have a question i really need help with

See my ex girlfriend is a very dear friend of mine since high school and so dearly want to have he back we only dated for one month but i do love her with all of my heart and will do anything to get this wonderful woman as mine agsin. How can I prove to her that i do truely love her and that she is all that matters to me and that i will not be the way i was when we were dating?

You need to just be a friends for a little bit and prove to her that you can be trusted. After that, its all in the cards of love.

Do i continue dating other people or do i just stay single until she is ready even if it is o say 10 years down the road?

Hi thomas

The best thing to do, usually, is to communicate ~ honestly and clearly.

She probably needs to know that you care, that you want to keep her in your life as a friend, but, more than this, that you would like, again, for her to be your special someone.

You should word this in your own vocabulary, of course, but you need to make it clear how you feel, and you must be completely honest with her.
Then you hope

I don't think that dating other girls, just now, is going to give her the right message ~ and, if you want to date other girls, then maybe you should be re-considering how you feel about this one.

Ten years down the road is way to far ahead to be thinking about at present, I think

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How can I prove to her that i do truely love her and that she is all that matters to me and that i will not be the way i was when we were dating?

Are you certain that you do truly love her?

You can only behave well and hope that she sees your true personality.
But, if you have been good friends for a long time, then I would have thought that she would already know this. So this is a bit baffling ???

As for 'i will not be the way i was when we were dating' ~ that's a bit baffling, too.
She was and is a dear friend, you truly love her, you only dated for a month, yet you behaved in a way that upset her?? Presumably whatever it was caused your break-up??

Without knowing more, it is difficult to comment further, but it would appear that a sincere open discussion might be the best way to go.

Does she like flowers? ~ Maybe you could give her a few, to pave the way??

Have a think about what you want and what went wrong.
Do you have something to apologise for? ~ If so, then say that you are sorry.
Was there a misunderstanding? ~ If so, then clarify the matter.

Good luck!

thank you it was kind a misunderstanding but in a way it wasn't at the same time...

be friend to her.. And then show off your good side make her fall for you. Don't just show up and say how much you love her you might frightened her... Take is slow man. eventually she will learn she had fallen for you.