To be honest im sorry im no expert! But you seem kinda obsessed with finding out if your spouse has cheated on you! Granteed it's never okay to cheat on your spouse...but just come out and ask her...i dont know anyone that dosent want you to just be honest and open. So i say just ask your spouse. If she/he say's no i havent you need to trust them. Because im shure part of marrying somone is to spend the rest of your lives together and to be holey and honest. That's what i would do. If she has cheated on you that's a whole diffrent story but i wish you luck.
