Me and my gf have been dating since the 9th grade.. and we both felt like we were more then just bf and gf but we weren't engaged. But we had a ring picked out and we wore promise rings to promise to be married and live happily ever after and everything was going great. I was committed and loyal to spend the rest of my life with this girl who I've grown up with.. around our 5 year anniversary she starts hanging out with a Guy friend. She's one of those girls with a lot more Guy friends then girlfriends so this is normal and everything's fine. But then she starts spending more tine with him then me and she starts telling me that he says I don't know what I've got and he loves her... now she comforts me and says he's really sensitive and she's trying to find a way to tell him that were going to continue to be together... a few weeks go by then the next thing I knew she says that he told her "promising to marry someone is really big and you shouldn't make promises you can't keep" then she's not wearing her promise ring anymore and tells me she loves him and we need to be single for us and see other people.. basicly breaks up with me and I havnt talked/texted/called etc. For about 5 days and I'm wondering what to do? Is she being influenced by him? Has she grown apart? Does she really not love me the way I love her? Will she come back? She says she wants to be friends but idk... I'm really heart sick and I want to move on to bigger and better things.. but she's always on my mind and I still love her very much..
