I am sorry that you have been let down by this man.
It's a shame that we sometimes have to be on our guard against people whom we feel tht we should be able to trust ~ but sadly, that's life.
Maybe this has given you the opportunity, though, to sort out your marriage.
If it is making you unhappy, then, chances are, your husband isn't too happy either.
Can you rekindle your love?
Can you talk things over?
Can you give each other a chance?
Or is it over?
Some things for you to consider
Good luck
