Hello mattieygabiey & welcome
Yes, as BLR says, this isn't exactly 'accidental' is it?
More 'unintentional', perhaps?
Either way, you and your boyfriend both knew that this would upset his Mum, yet you went ahead and did it. He must have been as aware as you were, of what was happening. Is his mother angry with him, too?
You actually realise that this
is 'a big deal'; otherwise you wouldn't be posting this as a problem.
And yes, BLR is right, his mother will probably be worried that you might be becoming sexually active ~ and unable to control your behaviour.
I agree that it is best if you tell your Mum yourself ~ but, if she doesn't now about this, why doesn't your boyfriend's Mum trust her? Is it because she is unhappy that you may have been brought up to behave in a manner that she finds unacceptable?
It seems that you have a lot of explaining, sorting out & apologising to do. You are both only 14, so you both need your parents' support. You need to appreciate this and to respect their wishes.
When you are older, you will understand their concerns.
Fourteen is very young; parents are bound to be worried I think.
