I'm hoping that PDM or Barbara have some advice about what to say.
It's pretty obvious that it's not the people, nor the women that he is attracted to, nor any other circumstances which are causing his problems. He needs desperately to seek psychiatric or psychological help.
How to say that to him, or to inspire him to seek help, I'm not sure. Kind of depends on your relationship with him.
With the incidents he described, I'm surprised that someone has not already done a psychiatric work-up on him.
I truly hope you are able to do some type of intervention with your friend.
I don't know if this is okay with you or not, but I'm praying for your friend.
